Reflecting

Lately I have been doing a lot of reflecting on my life. Things have changed greatly from this time last year and I am not talking about just physically. I have changed so much mentally as well. I look around at the people I know and I hear people at work complain… a lot. I don’t mind people complaining. Everyone does it. It is part of life. It honestly helps people bond (especially in a work setting). But it is starting to bother me when people complain about the tiny most trivial little things. I want to shake them and say “you must have never really been through anything rough in your life if you are complaining about that”. I think I am so much happier and less stressed at this point in my life then I was a year ago. One looking at me from the outside would expect the opposite. But this accident, trauma, recovery, and pain has taught me to truly not give a damn/worry about those little things any more. Shit happens. Get over it! Live every day to its fullest. The worrying will get you nowhere and help nothing.